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Saturday, October 10, 2009

Fakers

Ok, I am seriously getting tired of people passing off their fake jackoff chastity fantasies as truth. I guess I'm fairly well known, at least to a degree in the chastity belt community, and my yahoo messenger account is really no secret to anyone on just about any chastity board out there. Every so often, someone IM's me out of the blue wanting to chat. I'm cool with that, I like to chat with new people, anyone new want to chat with me, drop me an IM - just be real.

What I don't like is people making up what are clearly fake stories that they are passing off as the truth. Now, don't get me wrong, I like some good old chastity fiction as much as anyone, I like reading the stories from time to time, heck, jock locked high is one of my favorite stories out there. However, they are fiction, and billed as such. I just am getting really tired of people making things up.

The most recent one takes the cake. I'll paraphrase the story this guy told me. I personally am 99.99% sure it is fiction, if it's not, well then he needs to be in jail. He starts off by telling me that one of the guys he has locked is pretty horny, ok so far. That he made him wear a vibrating butt plug all day, and since he'd been locked for months that his underwear were pretty wet by the end of the day. OK so far, however now is where it goes over the line. He says the batteries in the vibe lasted until 7th period. RED FLAG here. This might not be a common term outside the US, but periods are what classes in school are called. So I ask, and he confirms that his locked guy is a senior in high school, and that he's 18 years old.

Another flag here, while it's "possible" most high school seniors would be only 17 years old at this point during the year. It gets worse, says that he locks the kid in a neosteel, those arent cheap, and arent easy to get. Add to this the fact that according to this guys j/o fantasy, the 18y/o kids brother is also locked in a neosteel, and that kid is 15. Come on, seriously. It's legal to lock the 18 y/o, if it was consentual, but a 15 year old, absolutely not. The story goes on and on, I ask to chat with the guys, but that's not possible, they are too "busy" working out naked, while their dom watches them on cam that he has at the workout room in his house.

I finally call B.S. on him, and he just abruptly signs out. I gotta say, I'm getting tired of these. There's another one on the Locked M4M site, an 18 year old has a friend who just "happens" to have a Latowski belt hanging around that will fit him, and he's gonna be locked for 3 years. To quote Officer Rod Farva from the movie Supertroopers; "I'll believe that when me shit turns purple and tastes like rainbow sherbet."

Oh, and if any of the people who tried passing off these stories as the god's honest truth, I have one thing to say to you: PROVE IT! Like I said, I have nothing against fiction, but write it down in a story, post it on a site, list it as fiction and get on with it. If you REALLY want to be locked, well then buy a CB, if you want to lock someone... JUST ASK, there's no shortage of guys needing keyholders, myself included!

Sorry, just had to vent about this.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

Back in

Hello fellow readers. I know that it's been a while since I last posted, so don't worry, I'm still in. Yes, I'll admit I did take a few small breaks from being in the belt, no sex, but I'll admit I did j/o a bit. I even thought for a little while about not going back in the belt, but after a lot of soul searching, I realized that it's best that I remain locked. I feel naked and incomplete without the belt. When I'm locked, I'm happier more confident guy, I don't know why that is. Whatever the reason, I'm back in the belt as much as I can.

However, I think the main reason that I had to start unlocking was that I joined a gym. In the past, I'd do some light exercise, like walking a mile or two, and that's fine with the belt, even lifting weights at the gym isn't really an issue. It's the cardio that is an issue, and I know I need to do it, so I've been taking it off for the gym, and then put it back on immediately once I get home. So far it's worked. Still though, I need a local keyholder.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Some thoughts

Hey fellow readers,

I know I haven't updated this in a while, and well it's because I haven't really had much to say. Some of you may have noticed the new counter that is on the top here, seems to be a nice feature. Anyway if you've paid attention to that, you'll probably guess that I did cum, and you are correct. I was allowed to cum, and have a nice good cleaning of the belt too. The whole thing probably took less than a minute, but felt good nonetheless. So, I guess that broke my streak of not cumming, which was a month and a few days.

I'm not sure how long I'm going to go this time, probably at least until September unless I'm told otherwise.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Made it a Month

Well, it has officially been a month in the belt. That's right, it has not been removed at all for any reason, not for one second for the entire month of June. I must say, this has really not been a problem at all. Yes, there were some times when it was uncomfortable and for sure there were times when I just wanted it off so I could rub one out, but it stayed on and did it's job. This thing is certainly worth the money, that's for sure.

How is this possible you may ask, actually it was rather easy. I have developed a pretty good hygiene routine. The penis tube has cleaning holes in it, so when I'm home I use the cleaning syringe, usually 8 squirts of it every time I pee. I don't use it at work though, but by the end of the day it definitely needs the cleaning syringe. Also, thankfully I'm extremely regular with going #2, not to be graphic, but it always occurs in the morning, usually after my second cup of coffee, so I always shower in the morning, after that function has taken place. Plenty of toilet paper and some unscented baby wipes make it fine. Also, in the shower in the morning I'll remove the shower head and stick the shower hose into the top of the tube to flush it out, and I do this for a few minutes and it seems to do a good job at removing any gunk that might have built up.

I have had a few minor sores, but some A&D ointment has cleared that right up, and I use it on the trouble spots, mainly on the part above the base of my penis every day, so skin has stayed good. Yes, if I took the belt off my skin would show signs that something foreign was there, namely where the waistband sits, but it hasn't broken the skin and is quite comfortable. Anyway the verdict is that after a full month of wearing the belt, it's fine, no problems whatsoever.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Three Full Weeks In The Belt

Well Fellow Readers, today marks three full weeks in the belt. Yes, I have gone much longer than that in the past without orgasm, and I will continue to remain locked. However, this is the longest time that I have been in the belt with no removal of the belt at all. That's right, it has not been removed at all for any reason since Sunday, May 31st. I think this is an important milestone as I did truly wonder how long it really was possible to wear the belt without removal and I'm happy to report that three weeks was really a piece of cake.

The belt has been very hygienic during this time, I can't notice any odors or anything, things seems to be staying very clean. I only experienced a little bit of minor chafing, which cleared up quite quickly with some A&D ointment. Also, this has given me the true experience of really wearing it at all times in many different types of situations and I'm glad to report that wearing it is not a problem at all. Most of the time I barely know that it's on as it has really molded itself to my body. I am glad to report that the belt is very wearable for long periods of time, and even after three weeks I can not think of any reason that it has to be removed, so it will remain locked on for quite a while longer.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Possibility of Accident's / involuntary outings

I posted this in one of the groups I belong to, but I think it's good information so I'll post it here.

Anyway, since I've worn a belt for several years, various models, cb-2000, cb-3000 and currently a my-steel, so I've got some experience. As for the possibility of an accident and being rushed to the emergency room, could it happen, yes. Has it happened to me, no. I think accidents occur rarely and I will take my chances. Also, since I'm in a full steel belt it's not like I could easily cut it in an emergency. Yes, I'm sure a pair of bolt cutters would make short work of it if I really needed to get out but for obvious reasons I don't carry those around with me on a daily basis.

Also, I do find that I am more cautious to avoid an accident now while locked. I find that I drive more defensively and generally don't speed. I used to be the person that if I was on a two lane road behind someone going exactly the speed limit, I would take the first opportunity to floor it and pass them. Now, I just kinda sit back at a safe distance knowing that I'll get to my destination eventually. I guess this also saves gas and wear and tear on the car, so that's a good thing.

As for being involved in an accident while wearing the belt, yes, I have. It was a minor skiing accident where I twisted/sprained my knee. Ski patrol brought me down in the sled and I was wearing a cb at the time, either the cb2k or the 3k, don't quite remember, doesn't really make a difference. For this, my cb was not discovered at all. At the mountain clinic, I pulled my pant leg up, they looked at my knee, and said that I should go to a real doctor to have it looked at. Yes, they offered to transport me via ambulance to the local hospital, but I declined, I told them I would go to my regular doctor at home. They bandaged my knee up and gave me an ice pack, set of crutches and I believe a hot chocolate as well. I did ask them if they would be nice enough to get my car from the parking lot a ways away and they did. I drove home (not an easy task driving a stick shift with one leg), followed their instructions and went to my local clinic after I unlocked. At no point in time would I have had to take my pants off at either of these places so it was not a big deal.

As for being discovered, I don't think I ever was, but I had one close call. This was when I was living in a college apartment with a few friends of mine. It wasn't any of the friends that saw, but what happened was our bathroom didn't have a doorknob lock, just a hook & eye latch. All of our housemates knew this and were quite respectful, if the door was closed, that meant it was occupied. Well, one day the landlord sent a plumber over to fix something in the bathroom, the shower I think. I didn't realize that the plumber was here and had gone down to the basement to shut the water off, so I was sitting on the toilet, door closed, with the latch and the plumber doesn't knock, and just tries to come in. The door only opened about an inch or two until he realized I was inside. I know he saw I was on the toilet, and there's a chance that he could have caught a glimpse of the cb, but I don't think he did. At least he never said anything if he did and I never saw that plumber again after that. That's all I got, and that's from about 7 years of wearing chastity belts.

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Haven't Posted in a While

I know it's been a while since I last posted, but I guess that's because I haven't had much to say. I have stayed locked, though I did have a "friend" over last Sunday and he did let cum, which was the first time since mid-march. It sure did feel pretty good, but I'm back in the belt now, actually I locked back up shortly after release. I'm really not sure how long I should go this time around, so if any of you have any suggestions, please let me know.

Normally in the past the first week of being locked after having an orgasm is pretty difficult, but for some reason this past week was easy. I usually find the first few weeks the most difficult, but maybe because I've really cut down my orgasm frequency to next to nothing it's gotten easier. I don't really know why, but I'm not complaining.

As for the belt, it's still doing fine, the fit is extremely comfortable and I've gotten cleaning it down to a science. The last time it had been over two weeks, actually closer to three weeks since I even removed it for cleaning. I've found that I can get soap and water into just about every crevice of the belt in the shower that it really keeps it clean, also I've taken to taking a bath instead of a shower every few days and that really helps. I'm still missing part of the lining, but it hasn't gotten any worse and it's not uncomfortable without it, so I still see no reason to send it back to Germany for repair.

I guess that's all for now, just wanted to make an update.