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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Update

Not a whole lot to report. I'm still having issues with the lining, I've tried several different glues, none seem to do the trick so I cut out the piece that was coming apart. The steel underneath is pretty smooth, so it doesn't feel any different. Maybe it will be fine without it, if not I'll try some other things.

Other than that, it's going quite well. I'm pretty well used to it so far and it has become quite comfortable, and while it's been over a month now since I last masturbated, I'm kind of in that long term mode now and not all that horny. I feel like I could go a few more months easily.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Issue with the lining

Well, in my last post I mentioned how I was having some issues with the rubber lining coming off. I did try the Krazy Glue, and it worked temporarily, but it cracked off. I'm guessing that it didn't work because krazy glue gets solid, which works great for ceramics, glass, and of course the cb3000, but due to the flexing that the crotch band I was figuring that I would get a glue that allows a bit more flexibility.

So, I went to the hardware store. I did ask the clerk, who seemed knowledgeable what kind of glue would be best for bonding rubber and steel. Of course I didn't say what I needed it for. Anyway, long story short, I think this could work, I glued it, and now I'm letting it stand to dry for the glue to cure. Needless to say, this is something that required removal of the belt, but at least I have my old cb-3000 to wear in the meantime.

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Sunday Update

I know it's been a few days since I made an update, so here goes. First off, the belt is still doing well and is securely locked on. I did find one issue, and that was that some of the rubber lining was separating from crotch shield around the anus hole. Not a big deal, and a little squirt of Krazy Glue seems to have solved this, though if anyone knows if there might be a better type of glue for this, please let me know, I can guess that this might be an issue from time to time.

One of the readers asked me a question as to whether I get wet dreams, and the answer is yes I do. So far this time, I have been locked since March 11th, well at least that was the day of my most recent orgasm, so today would be day 40. In that time, I've had two wet dreams, so I guess that works out to every three weeks or so. I didn't chart which days they occurred, but I might start doing that, if for no other reason than scientific research.

I know some people out there want to restrict wet dreams too, I don't believe that they are a bad thing, I think it's the body's way of taking care of itself and nothing to be upset with. Personally, I don't think there would be much of a way to restrict wet dreams, except with maybe a spiked device, but then that kind of device would cause extreme pain. I personally like being able to sleep comfortably through the night.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

The first true test of the belt

Well readers, I'll say this. It's my opinion that a belt is only truly secure if it truly prevents orgasm when you don't want it on. A little background here, for those of you who have one of the CB-xxxx series, well unless you have a piercing, chances are that most guys can somehow find a way to have an orgasm in it. I was able to do so in the cb-3000 and cb-2000, though it was quite difficult.

Last night though, I gave it the best possible try to have an orgasm in the my-steel and I guess I'm happy to report that no matter what I tried, I couldn't do it. I'll tell you, it has now been over a month since my last orgasm and things were definitely building up, last night I was so frustrated that I just had to do anything to try and get a little relief. I tried using one of my dildos, tried humping the bed, tried humping the bed while using the dildo. I thought this would work, but no matter what I tried, and I went at it for a while, I just couldn't get over the edge. I almost had to cry. All I got out of it was a little bit of precum and being even more frustrated than I was before.

This is what I wanted though, and now that it's the next morning and though still horny, I'm glad I had the belt on and that it did it's job. Anyone can wear a belt when they want to wear it, and not orgasm, but it takes a real high quality belt to be able to be worn and secure even when the wearer is determined to defeat it. I was determined to defeat this thing last night, I tried and tried, but in the end, the belt held strong and did it's job. Just thought I'd mention that.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

A look back at the first month

Well it's official, I've now had the belt for exactly one month today and I'm going to give a bit of a rundown of the first month in the belt. My guess is that the first few weeks or even the first month were supposed to be the most difficult, and I can honestly say that getting used to wearing this was a breeze. I have not found it difficult to wear at all, in fact it is quite comfortable, more comfortable than it looks.

As for wearing it, it does not seem to prevent me from doing anything (except of course the one thing it's supposed to prevent, which it does an excellent job at preventing). I can run, drive, bend, stretch, go to work, go to the bathroom, sleep, not a problem. The only activity that I do that I have not tried wearing it skiing, though I probably could. The reason that I do not, is that I'm a fairly extreme skier, and it's my passion and I don't want to be inhibited doing that, so if it means I have to remove the belt, then I'm going to take it off for the day.

I didn't actually keep a good track of removal's and wearings, but I am quite sure that the belt was only off for maybe a maximum of six days, and by that I am talking 6 24 hour periods. The longest length of time that I wore it without removal was 9 days, and even at that point I could have worn it longer I believe without too much issue.

Keeping it clean is not really an issue, though I know just about all of us guys get lazy every once in a while and go a day without a shower. (Oh don't look at me like that, you KNOW you've done it.) Well, with the belt, a daily shower is mandatory, but just one a day seems to be fine. I prefer to shower in the morning, but that's my preference. Going to the bathroom isn't a problem, like I mentioned in a previous post I am very regular with having to go #2, so I haven't had to do that in a public restroom thankfully, but it would not be an issue if I did. Anyway, that's all for now. basically the first month was a snap, the belt is doing great.

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Finally Posting A Pic

Ok, well I finally got a new webcam that is compatible with my computer, so here you go everyone. I know many of you wanted to see what the belt looked like, and well, here it is.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Got to take a little time off

Well, I've been pretty good for just about the last two weeks, but I had to remove the belt today. I got a bit of a sore in my pubic area where the crotch shield rests on the skin. It really hurts quite a bit, so I did have to take the belt off. It's been forming for a few days now, and so far I've dealt with it, but I really want to make sure that I can wear the belt all weekend, seeing as I have a lazy weekend planned, and well, idle times... and I don't want to risk giving in to temptation. Not to be gross or anything, I'm going to try and be as clinical as possible, but it almost seems like it was a zit that ruptured. Anyway, it hurts a bit, so I'll do the safe thing and take some time off for now.

I will say that aside for about 5 minutes on Monday, this is the first time since Sunday, March 22nd that the belt has been off, and I miss it, I kind of feel naked without it. Hopefully I'll be able to put it back on tomorrow night.