After about 2 months, I got the package. Actually, I got a notice saying
that I had to go to the post office and pick it up so I did that next morning. That was rather
mortifying, as on the box, is the order receipt in plain view; and his logo is a guy wearing one of these belts. There was no hiding from the lady behind the counter what was in the box. However she didn't say anything; either she was oblivious to it (what I hope) or she maintained professionalism (this is more likely).
I took it right home, opened it up...it was gorgeous so I immediately had to try it on. First, had to unlock the my-steel (the agreement was that I had to wear it until the carrara arrived). At first, I thought I may have mis-measured, because I struggled with the thing for about 20 minutes just to get it on. It's tight, that's for sure. But, I did finally get it on and went back to work.
It is starting to mold to my body, I'm able to get it one notch tighter, though am still keeping it at the loosest setting. I've tried the various attachments, the spikes, etc. All seem to work well. Bathroom functions are not an issue, but this thing is HEAVY! So it's taking some getting used to.
So far, I wore it all day Thursday, took it off for Friday, but put it back on Friday night. Slept with it on both nights, sleeping is no problem with it on, in fact last night I had one of the most restful sleeps of my life.
I've now taken delivery of my 3rd Custom Belt, this one from Belgian maker Walter Goethals AKA, Carrara Designs. Reason I went with this, a friend of mine ordered one, and I got to see it in person. Unfortunately I couldn't try it on as he's a skinny kid and I simply couldn't fit (I did try though).
I was so impressed by it that I think I sent the order request in the next day.
Measuring was easy enough, I ordered the full belt, with the ball covers...top of the line. In January I got my prince albert piercing, wish I had done this years ago. So, since I had the piercing I added the additional PA lock....now wearing this thing, that's completely unnecessary.
Also, I lucked out I suppose, because after the fact I asked that he include the front dildo, which he did and he also included the optional, removable penis tube spikes...those are fiendishly evil! Only option I didn't get was the locking rear dildo, I have one from the My-Steel belt which will work on this belt, should I choose to use it. I rarely used it on the mysteel, preferring regular buttplugs that I can easily insert/remove as necessary.
I'd been without a belt for a few months, and suffice it to say, I missed it. So, January of 2011 I decided to order another belt. Since I had a great experience with My-Steel the first time around I figured I'd go with them again. This time, I went with the "Activ" Thong style rear and went with the smaller diameter closed ended tube. Reason for that is that on the first belt I found that after a few weeks, if I was horny enough, I could reach into the tube and stimulate myself enough to cum, so I wanted to fix that.
Going with the smaller, closed end tube was a great idea! Much more secure, and easy enough to keep clean.
I took delivery of the belt mid March, 2011. However I only got to use it for about a month at the outset. Many of you in the USA know that 2011 was a wacky weather year, and I was affected. My house flooded out, was evacuated and house was without power and unlivable for 2 months. Thankfully great friends allowed me to stay with them; but my spring and summer, most of my free time was devoted to gutting my house. Don't worry, I have my house back now, it's repaired and better than ever, but it's an experience I hope I never have to deal with again...I don't think I have it in me for a second time around.
That being said, I didn't really start wearing again until the fall. I did have a couple of guys agree to be keyholder, and they generally did; but were somewhat reluctant about it. I think they didn't get it, or only really agreed to do so since I wanted it. It was OK though, I generally did 2 week stints; some longer some shorter.
Well fellow readers, if you thought this blog was dead it is not! I guess I can say a bit about what's happened over the past few years. First off, I sold my first My-steel belt (the one with the black lining) I actually lost about 50lbs! Went from wearing Size 40 Jeans down to 33! Obviously no chastity belt can deal with that kind of weight loss.
Sooo, I posted online, sold it in one day, smooth paypal transaction. Bought it for $800, sold it 2 years later for $500, so I definitely got my money's worth out of it.
Well fellow readers of my blog, I gotta say the search for a suitable keyholder is a lot more difficult than I thought. It seems that locked guys generally fall into three categories, guys that are locked by their wives, guys that are real slaves/subs and guys that are self locked. At the moment, I fall in the third category there being self locked at the moment.
I gotta say, I'm ready, I'm more than ready actually to have a keyholder. I've tried a few arrangements, but they didn't really work out. Yes, I've had several offers, and a few demands :), to have my keys and I have turned them down. I'm not some sissy crossdresser into femming, and I'm not a slave. Sure, I have my sub tendencies from time to time, but fact of the matter is all in all I'm just a pretty average guy. In day to day life I'd be indistinguishable from any other ordinary guy, excepting the fact that my underwear is made of metal and it locks. I want to keep it that way.
I know what I want, I just can't find it. I want someone that cares enough about the real me to want to keep me locked. If that person wants to unlock me and useme for their pleasure, then I will thank them for the opportunity, though I shall not seek it. I want a relationship that is based on a mutual respect. I will not tolerate being called "boi" or "slave" or any other derogatory term and I will not address someone as "Sir" "Master/Mistress", etc, unless they have proven worthy of it and even then not in a public setting.
Why is it that there just aren't many regular people out there? So I'll say this, if you are a "Normal" person, around my age category who want's to get to know me, and perhaps some day hold my key, let me know. There's gotta be someone around me locally that fits this criteria, I don't think I'm being too picky, I just want to find the right person.
I am very happy to say that I finally got up the nerve to wear my chastity belt to the gym. A little history, I joined the gym finally back in August since I really am trying to get in better shape since I do need to do that. Anyway, all this time I did not wear the cb to the gym, I was afraid that it would chafe, that it would be noticeable and it would impede my workout so up until this point, I would always unlock myself right before going to the gym and immediately lock back up once I got home. I'll be honest, this didn't always work. When the belt is off, that's when temptation is at it's greatest, and unfortunately a few times that I did this, I gave into temptation and rubbed one out.
I know that if I find a keyholder, the whole removing the belt several times a week for the gym is going to be difficult, if not impossible. This would leave two options, either not go to the gym, or not stay chaste. Neither of these are really acceptable options.
Today, I finally got up the courage to wear it to the gym, and I'm extremely happy to say that it worked out just fine. I figured I'd try it out today since generally on Sunday's it's pretty empty, not sure why I thought that would be a factor, but whatever. My main thought was how to prevent chafing, and here's what I did. Before I left the house, I spread a healthy amount of A&D ointment around the usual trouble spots, donned one of my tightest pairs of briefs, put in a Depend Male Guard as well. Yes, I do wear these guards on a daily basis to prevent any drips whch are a problem for me, but the guard also has the added benefit of curving itself around the crotch shield creating a barrier between the metal edges of the shield and my thighs. If I do this with tight briefs, it seems to work pretty well. As an added measure, I wore a pair of tight cycling shorts over this, and then of course a pair of loose nylon shorts over that. I wore the shorts that have a drawstring, and I tied it rather tight.
All of this worked out quite well, I was able to do some weights, and also most importantly, cardio. I was able to do a solid half hour on the elliptical, and I didn't have to go any slower than normal. All in all, it was not an issue at all to wear the belt to the gym, and I will continue to do so. I didn't get any chafing whatsoever either. I guess this means that I no longer have to remove the belt for this and that I can go back to true 24/7 wear, which makes me very happy :)
And for those of you who are wondering, no I did not shower at the gym, I'm not doing that in the belt since the only shower facilities are not private, they are the traditional group showers, I waited until I got home.
Ok, I am seriously getting tired of people passing off their fake jackoff chastity fantasies as truth. I guess I'm fairly well known, at least to a degree in the chastity belt community, and my yahoo messenger account is really no secret to anyone on just about any chastity board out there. Every so often, someone IM's me out of the blue wanting to chat. I'm cool with that, I like to chat with new people, anyone new want to chat with me, drop me an IM - just be real.
What I don't like is people making up what are clearly fake stories that they are passing off as the truth. Now, don't get me wrong, I like some good old chastity fiction as much as anyone, I like reading the stories from time to time, heck, jock locked high is one of my favorite stories out there. However, they are fiction, and billed as such. I just am getting really tired of people making things up.
The most recent one takes the cake. I'll paraphrase the story this guy told me. I personally am 99.99% sure it is fiction, if it's not, well then he needs to be in jail. He starts off by telling me that one of the guys he has locked is pretty horny, ok so far. That he made him wear a vibrating butt plug all day, and since he'd been locked for months that his underwear were pretty wet by the end of the day. OK so far, however now is where it goes over the line. He says the batteries in the vibe lasted until 7th period. RED FLAG here. This might not be a common term outside the US, but periods are what classes in school are called. So I ask, and he confirms that his locked guy is a senior in high school, and that he's 18 years old.
Another flag here, while it's "possible" most high school seniors would be only 17 years old at this point during the year. It gets worse, says that he locks the kid in a neosteel, those arent cheap, and arent easy to get. Add to this the fact that according to this guys j/o fantasy, the 18y/o kids brother is also locked in a neosteel, and that kid is 15. Come on, seriously. It's legal to lock the 18 y/o, if it was consentual, but a 15 year old, absolutely not. The story goes on and on, I ask to chat with the guys, but that's not possible, they are too "busy" working out naked, while their dom watches them on cam that he has at the workout room in his house.
I finally call B.S. on him, and he just abruptly signs out. I gotta say, I'm getting tired of these. There's another one on the Locked M4M site, an 18 year old has a friend who just "happens" to have a Latowski belt hanging around that will fit him, and he's gonna be locked for 3 years. To quote Officer Rod Farva from the movie Supertroopers; "I'll believe that when me shit turns purple and tastes like rainbow sherbet."
Oh, and if any of the people who tried passing off these stories as the god's honest truth, I have one thing to say to you: PROVE IT! Like I said, I have nothing against fiction, but write it down in a story, post it on a site, list it as fiction and get on with it. If you REALLY want to be locked, well then buy a CB, if you want to lock someone... JUST ASK, there's no shortage of guys needing keyholders, myself included!
